A Genuine Unadulterated Loser, Lardwellyn W. (Bill) Hughes III

On Thu, 3 Apr 2008 19:10:32 -0800,  "Superman Hughes Troll and s***
bag" <BillHughes@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:

Narcissist's Strategy:


Remember that a narcissist's goal is attention. His or her whole life
is a game of monopoly for it all. Keep in mind that attention comes in
many forms, including regard, love, and respect. 

The grandiosity is an excuse to justify hogging it all. 

The abuse denies it, bringing the victim low, either by slander or
treating them like dirt. 

The lack of empathy is partly play-acting grandiosity by viewing the
deprived victim as a bug and partly to un-conscience the cruelty of
narcissistic abuse. 

So, at bottom, it's all about attention. 

Though a narcissist may be overtly exhibitionistic at times, NPD is
different from other attention-getting disorders. A narcissist's
attention getting is covert most of the time. There are two reasons
for this. 
 · She can't abuse just anyone without risk of payback. So, (normally)
she needs to project an image that reflects well on her. People
respond negatively to any but subtle exhibitionism that somehow stays
beneath their radar. So, exhibitionism rarely gets a narcissist the
reflection she wants to see in people's faces.  
 
   
 · Needing to be the center of attention is a childhood trait. Being
childish is not grandiose, so the narcissist must get attention
without seeming to seek or want it.  
 
   

Besides, a god isn't exhibitionistic. God is self-sufficient, needing
nothing from anyone. God never cries out for attention. Instead, she
is subtle: she needs to project an image of herself as so special that
others owe her all their attention without her having to ask for it.
Or appreciate it (which would be paying some attention back). In other
words, she acts like a queen, who is above noticing all the attention
she gets from everyone around her but regards her dignity as slighted
by anything less than all of it. 

This absurdly haughty attitude is born of another thing that
distinguishes narcissistic attention-getting from other personality
disorders. Narcissists are infinitely stingy with their own attention
and infinitely covetous of everybody else's. In fact, their most
characteristic behaviors are behaviors that deny attention to anyone
but themselves. 

She cannot stand to see anyone else get any. That's stealing from her.
She is just like a spoiled brat who won't share her toys. 

So, whenever possible, she deprives others of all forms of attention.
That is, she contrives to make sure others get no regard, affection,
appreciation, consideration, respect, and so forth. She must get it
all. 
--


“A winner makes commitment. A loser makes promises.”

“The path of least resistance is the path of the loser.”