A Genuine Unadulterated Loser, Lardwellyn W. (Bill) Hughes III

On Sat, 5 Apr 2008 01:05:34 -0800,  "Superman Hughes Troll and s***
bag" <BillHughes@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:

Predation:


First, the need to have it all. An analogy illustrates the threat to
others in this attitude. Let's say that you feel a compelling need to
have all the dollars in the world. 

Then, no matter how many you get, you compete with others for every
single one. That's unbridled, avaricious greed, and it makes you an
adversary of everyone else in the world. 

If you see a dollar in someone else's hand, you will want to take it
away. Just because he has it. That's the desire to plunder others. In
other words, you will view the possessor of that dollar as a predator
views prey.

There in lays the "malignance" in malignant narcissism. Indeed, the
inescapable logic is that if you wish someone to have no dollars, you
wish him harm. The need to deprive others of what they need, just so
you can have it all, is the soul of malignance. 

Narcissists are predators, but many people fail appreciate the meaning
of that term, letting it in one ear and out the other. The word
predator seems to mean nothing to them unless you put the word ***ual
in front of it. As if ***ual predators are the only kind. Thinking
that makes you easy prey for other kinds of predators, like street con
artists, wolves and gold diggers ("love thieves"), false messiahs,
wanna be dictators, and crusaders like Osama bin Wanton. 

Being predators puts narcissists in a special class with psychopaths,
that class of people who don't wish you well, no matter how friendly
their facade — that class from which ***ual predators and all other
kinds of predators come. 

In anticipation of those who will attack me for putting narcissists
and psychopaths in this special class, I point out that I am not the
one who does so: they do. They do this by identifying with their image
instead of their true (human) self inside. They despise it. Precisely
because it is human. And they consequently despise humanity itself,
and all us merely human beings. They view themselves as gods relative
to us, who look down on us the way we look down on cockroaches. 

Like all predators, they are elaborately camouflaged. For, they can't
hurt or deceive people they can't get close to. And no one would let a
malignant narcissist near them if they knew what that narcissist is,
what he goes through life doing to people just to feed his ego. In
fact, if you suddenly became a predator, your first thought would be
that you need to camouflage yourself. So, it's no wonder that at a
young age narcissists and psychopaths start going to a great deal of
trouble to seem like the rest of us. 

But inside they aren't like the rest of us. They don't consider
themselves one of us. No more than a wolf in sheep's clothing
considers himself a sheep. 

There is no changing this about them. At least not now or in the
foreseeable future. 
--


“A winner makes commitment. A loser makes promises.”

“The path of least resistance is the path of the loser.”