On Mon, 2 Jun 2008 18:59:29 -0700, "Superman Hughes TrollKiller of
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>"Terry Dactille ©~®" <pterry@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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>> On Mon, 17 Mar 2008 15:14:39 GMT, Pink Freud
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>> >> Both times she started right up after getting back upright.
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>> >I had a girlfriend like that.....
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>> Did she have a kick start?
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The serial bully:
is a convincing, practised liar and when called to account, will make
up anything spontaneously to fit their needs at that moment
has a Jekyll and Hyde nature - is vile, vicious and vindictive in
private, but innocent and charming in front of witnesses; no-one can
(or wants to) believe this individual has a vindictive nature - only
the current target of the serial bully's aggression sees both sides;
whilst the Jekyll side is described as "charming" and convincing
enough to deceive personnel, management and a tribunal, the Hyde side
is frequently described as "evil"; Hyde is the real person, Jekyll is
an act
excels at deception and should never be underestimated in their
capacity to deceive
uses excessive charm and is always plausible and convincing when
peers, superiors or others are present (charm can be used to deceive
as well as to cover for lack of empathy)
is glib, shallow and superficial with plenty of fine words and lots of
form - but there's no substance
is possessed of an exceptional verbal facility and will outmanoeuvre
most people in verbal interaction, especially at times of conflict
is often described as smooth, slippery, slimy, ingratiating, fawning,
toadying, obsequious, sycophantic
relies on mimicry, repetition and regurgitation to convince others
that he or she is both a "normal" human being and a tough dynamic
manager, as in extolling the virtues of the latest management fads and
pouring forth the accompanying jargon
is unusually skilled in being able to anticipate what people want to
hear and then saying it plausibly
cannot be trusted or relied upon
fails to fulfil commitments
is emotionally retarded with an arrested level of emotional
development; whilst language and intellect may appear to be that of an
adult, the bully displays the emotional age of a five-year-old
is emotionally immature and emotionally untrustworthy
exhibits unusual and inappropriate attitudes to ***ual matters, ***ual
behaviour and bodily functions; underneath the charming exterior there
are often suspicions or hints of *** discrimination and ***ual
harassment, perhaps also ***ual dysfunction, ***ual inadequacy, ***ual
perversion, ***ual violence or ***ual abuse
in a relation****p, is incapable of initiating or sustaining intimacy
holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite gender, people of a
different ***ual orientation, other cultures and religious beliefs,
foreigners, etc - prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative) but
goes to great lengths to keep this prejudicial aspect of their
personality secret
is self-opinionated and displays arrogance, audacity, a superior sense
of entitlement and sense of invulnerability and untouchability
has a deep-seated contempt of clients in contrast to his or her
professed compassion
is a control freak and has a compulsive need to control everyone and
everything you say, do, think and believe; for example, will launch an
immediate personal attack attempting to restrict what you are
permitted to say if you start talking knowledgeably about psychopathic
personality or antisocial personality disorder in their presence - but
aggressively maintains the right to talk (usually unknowledgeably)
about anything they choose; serial bullies despise anyone who enables
others to see through their deception and their mask of sanity
displays a compulsive need to criticise whilst simultaneously refusing
to value, praise and acknowledge others, their achievements, or their
existence
shows a lack of joined-up thinking with conversation that doesn't flow
and arguments that don't hold water
flits from topic to topic so that you come away feeling you've never
had a proper conversation
refuses to be specific and never gives a straight answer
is evasive and has a Houdini-like ability to escape accountability
undermines and destroys anyone who the bully perceives to be an
adversary, a potential threat, or who can see through the bully's mask
is adept at creating conflict between those who would otherwise
collate incriminating information about them
is quick to discredit and neutralise anyone who can talk knowledgeably
about antisocial or sociopathic behaviors
may pursue a vindictive vendetta against anyone who dares to held them
accountable, perhaps using others' resources and contemptuous of the
damage caused to other people and organisations in pursuance of the
vendetta
is also quick to belittle, undermine, denigrate and discredit anyone
who calls, attempts to call, or might call the bully to account
gains gratification from denying people what they are entitled to
is highly manipulative, especially of people's perceptions and
emotions (eg guilt)
poisons peoples' minds by manipulating their perceptions
when called upon to share or address the needs and concerns of others,
responds with impatience, irritability and aggression
is arrogant, haughty, high-handed, and a know-all
often has an overwhelming, unhealthy and narcissistic
attention-seeking need to ****tray themselves as a wonderful, kind,
caring and compassionate person, in contrast to their behaviour and
treatment of others; the bully sees nothing wrong with their behavior
and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy between how they
like to be seen and how they are seen by others
is spiritually dead although may loudly profess some religious belief
or affiliation
is mean-spirited, officious, and often unbelievably petty
is mean, stingy, and financially untrustworthy
is greedy, selfish, a parasite and an emotional vampire
is always a taker and never a giver
is convinced of their superiority and has an overbearing belief in
their qualities of leader****p but cannot distinguish between
leader****p (maturity, decisiveness, assertiveness, co-operation,
trust, integrity) and bullying (immaturity, impulsiveness, aggression,
manipulation, distrust, deceitfulness)
often fraudulently claims qualifications, experience, titles,
entitlements or affiliations which are ambiguous, misleading, or bogus
often misses the semantic meaning of language, misinterprets what is
said, sometimes wrongly thinking that comments of a satirical, ironic
or general negative nature apply to him or herself
knows the words but not the song
is constantly imposing on others a false reality made up of distortion
and fabrication
sometimes displays a seemingly limitless demonic energy especially
when engaged in attention-seeking activities or evasion of
accountability and is often a committeeaholic or apparent workaholic
Responsibility
The serial bully appears to lack insight into his or her behaviour and
seems to be oblivious to the crassness and inappropriateness thereof;
however, it is more likely that the bully knows what they are doing
but elects to switch off the moral and ethical considerations by which
normal people are bound. If the bully knows what they are doing, they
are responsible for their behaviour and thus liable for its
consequences to other people. If the bully doesn't know what they are
doing, they should be suspended from duty on the grounds of diminished
responsibility and the provisions of the Mental Health Act should
apply.
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I was required to take the officer's test, while in Advanced
Individual Training, which means I have a 59 IQ, and you didn't!
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